Three Things I’ve Learned From Sweaty, Naked People

Over the past 12 years, I’ve touched more than 5000 sweaty, naked people. By choice.

I am a hot yoga teacher.

(No, not a “hot” yoga teacher…a Hot 26 Yoga teacher.)

hot yoga njOur western culture tends to frown upon public nakedness (although I have had several requests to add “nude hot yoga” at my hot yoga NJ studio. Not gonna happen) but somehow, hot yoga is the exception.

Shedding your clothing, along with your inhibitions, is highly encouraged in hot yoga.

In my hot yoga NJ studio and thousands of others across the country, people of all sizes, shapes and smells stand mat to mat testing the limits of our skimpiest clothing, nonchalantly sweating like racehorses while we focus intently in the mirrors in front of us, shutting out all distractions including the hot yogis around us (translate “hot” any way you want).

This is not easy…especially in forward bends.

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Does social media make you a social dud?

We’re all hooked – we’re all social media junkies. Think you can stop anytime? When was the last time you promised to close the computer NOW and found yourself still sitting there at dusk?

We’re tweeting our Tweeps, fanning our Facebooks, blah-blah-blogging…. are we losing our ability to look each other in the eye without a device between us?

Is being fully present a thing of the past?

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I’m not just a hot yoga teacher…

I realized one dark, sleepless night, that I am not just a hot yoga teacher.

I am my own best hot yoga client.

hot yoga for busy womenI am a woman with too much to do, and too many ghosts to feed.  Last night, the ghosts began calling to me at precisely 3AM. It started with some whispering through the stainless steel door of my usually silent dishwasher:

“Let me OUT!  I can’t breathe! It’s too hot!  Too many of us n here, way too close! And what’s that dripping down my leg?”

Last week, it waslaundry that came to life at half past midnight. One moment it was lying limp against the drum of dryer. The next, it was screaming to be sorted, folded, and put away.

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How can hot yoga support your real life? Anchor it!

When you practice 90 minutes of hot yoga, you learn to challenge yourself, feel good about your accomplishments, then allow yourself the luxury to fully relax.

But what about the other 1200+ daily minutes of real life outside of hot yoga?

How can you carry that stresslessness from the hot yoga room out into your real life?

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How can you maintain your steady balance, your feelings self worth, and your calm self acceptance when you’re NOT in hot yoga – but instead, you’re in the midst of yet another argument with your husband about the toilet seat, or your kids just won’t take no for an answer, or your boss decides to move the department meeting to the week you’re on vacation?

My friend Suzanne Jones has a wonderfully simple way to carry the emotional calm of hot yoga, out into your real life where it will do you some real good; she calls it Anchoring.

Suzanne explains how to create “anchors” during your next hot yoga class, to keep you feeling wonderful throughout the many challenges you’re about to face in your real life.

Using Anchors to Enhance Your Hot Yoga

By Suzanne Jones
Hypnotherapist/Mind Interrupted Hypnotherapy

What do we mean by “anchoring your emotions?” What purpose does emotional anchoring serve?

How can you “anchor” your hot yoga practice so it stays with you beyond the 90 minutes in the hot yoga room?

pure hot yogaAnchoring is a technique whereby a personal state of mind becomes associated with a unique stimulus. These emotional anchors come in many forms such as sights, sounds, power words, memories, verbal phrases and more.

We all have anchors whether we intended them or not. Some anchors we have consciously created, but most have been created for us.

Anchors that you intentionally create can be as simple as gestures you make repeatedly during a strong emotional or mental state. These gestures actually anchor the emotion in your subconscious mind, where you can call on them again and again.

Anchors that have been created “for us” happen this way: during a peak emotional state, something else is happening consistently and simultaneously and thus, the emotion and the event become linked.

Say, for example, your mother or father yelled a lot when you were a child. The tone of their voices stuck with you. Now as an adult, anytime you hear that same tone, from anyone, your mind links back to being scolded as a child and you will immediately return to those old, negative emotions.

Perhaps you failed a very important exam. You felt horrible about it. You went to your family and friends for support and each one of them patted your hand as you told of your failure. Your mind and body have now made a permanent connection between that gesture and the emotion of failure. Now, anytime someone pats your hand you experience that negative, disappointed feeling.

If an anchor is done so easily wouldn’t it make perfect sense to consciously incorporate anchors into our everyday life? For the positive?

Hot Yoga works best with Anchors

Hot Yoga can be challenging.

hot yoga njIf you struggle with a hot yoga pose and then ‘get’ it, the feeling that goes along with this has been described as ‘joyful achievement’.

Now you can have this same feeling anytime you want through anchoring.
Perhaps you want to carry with you the relaxed and comforted feeling you have during Savasana. By anchoring your feeling during your hot yoga moments of total rest, you are allowing yourself a way to return to that calm at times when your life seems out of control.

How do you anchor your hot yoga? Here’s are simple ways to start right away:

anchoring your hot yoga njDuring a ‘peak state’, like, the complete letting go you experience in hot yoga Savasana, try tapping your first two fingers together. Be in the moment , completely relaxed Savasana, while tapping your fingers. This is how you anchor your feeling of calm. Try repeating this anchor in your Savasana for each hot yoga class.  The more often you anchor the stronger it becomes.

Now, each time you want to experience total relaxation and can’t get to hot yoga, tap your fingers together. It’s a little like Dorothy tapping her ruby-slippers together: the action alone instantly transports you to the feeling-place you want to experience.
You can create an anchor any way you choose,  but simple and accessible gestures are best. Depending on your lifestyle, it is ideal to create an anchor that remains somewhat hidden from view.  I don’t know if you want to be pulling on your earlobe in the middle of an intense board meeting!

Make an anchor for each significant feeling you experience in hot yoga. The feeling of Savasana is much different than ‘joyful achievement’  in your full extension of Standing Bow Pulling.  They are two such different states, that you need two completely different anchors.

So perhaps you can rub your fingers together for “joyful achievement,” on your left hand this time. Remember to repeat that anchor in each hot yoga class where you achieve the pose you wanted.

Once you create your anchors, use them at anytime, to get back into the chosen state. If you are having a stressful day, the anchor used for Savasana would be a lifesaver. If you are experiencing feelings of inadequacy, your anchor for ‘joyful achievement’ is the  perfect pick-me-up.

Get to hot yoga often so you can get those wonderful feelings of a hot yoga practice. In each hot yoga class, create and repeat anchors to reinforce those feeling within yourself.  Your anchors encapsulate those feelings so you can recall them easily  outside your hot yoga practice, allowing you to instantly transform any situation, anytime, anywhere.

Hot yoga and cool anchors: another way to get the life you really want, at your fingertips.

Have you created anchors that work? COMMENT HERE!

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The Yoga of Bruce Springsteen

I do hard-core, no nonsense, New Jersey hot yoga three times a week; I am accustomed to pushing down all the barricades to opening my heart.

But I was unprepared to be blinded by the light.

I was standing center stage on the floor at the New Jersey opening concert of 2012 Bruce Springsteen tour.

A Bruce concert may be the only place where standing for hours is coveted, where the median age is 50 and where the kids are the designated drivers.

Bruce Springsteen NJ 2012 Concert TourMy 18 year old son and my husband bought floor tickets, but then we won the B-List Lottery: our wristband numbers got called and suddenly, we - along with our instant 400 friends/fellow fans -were transported to the front of the barricade, closest to the stage, no holds barred.

This was the first sign to show a little faith; there’s magic in the night.

Bruce without borders was about to become another kind of hot yoga experience.

Just a warning: after 40 years practicing yoga and 15 years in hot yoga, it’s my habit to see everything through yoga-colored lenses. Yoga is my way to parse the world, a way of living and being, within yourself, with others, living in the world but slightly apart to remain unaffected by its affectations.

So there I saw it,  Bruce and his E Street Band, doing hot yoga on the stage. Sweating and panting  and bending every bit as much as I have in the 105-degree hot yoga room. Totally present, but slightly above it. I was close enough to notice that hey, maybe they’re not so young anymore. And neither was I - that night I turned 55.

And that was alright with me.

Bruce was a Freehold, NJ kid, which just happens to be the town where I spent the last 20 years. He still lives in the vicinity of his Hometown. There were always Bruce sightings, and near misses because Bruce is a regular guy. Except for one thing.

Bruce Springsteen NJ Izod ArenaBruce had the juice. He never gave up. He never doubted his talent and his success. He rushed headlong into his own life and just kept going.

When his father told him to give up music, he turned a deaf ear. When his high school teacher lamented that he couldn’t put together two coherent sentences, he went on and wrote decades of musical poetry. When Bruce made the cover of Time Magazine some 30 years or so ago, one Freehold High School teacher slammed the issue down the desk, looked up and said to his students, “What the heck do I know?”

What the heck do we know? We know we were born to run. We feel it in our engines, before we allow others to brake us down.

But not tonight.

Tonight, I’m in love with a Jersey girl….me.

Bruce Springsteen NJ Concert 2012Bruce opens his American guy heart and screams at us to escape on Highway 9, begging us to strap our hands ‘cross his engines, ride the Glory Days.  He is speaking at us, for us, but mostly he speaks up for himself. Bruce never got a day job. He never cared about making the grade in school. He went headlong into the night with 100% commitment. He only looked back once: to invite us along.

So now, 63 years old, he still makes our engines vibrate. King of the Badlands. Rocking headlong into the life he always knew he would live.

In between my dancing, singing, fist pumping and screaming, I stood quietly and looked up at Bruce, larger than life and yet so much like the guy you walk past on the street any given day. I thought about all my own disappeared dreams, all the disappointments I let under my skin. I heard all the warnings that never warmed me, and, in the end, never protected me from anything except the life I was born to live. Bruce croons at to me to remember that it’s not too late.

I ain’t a beauty, but, yeah, I’m alright.

Bruce sang right to me on April 3. He picked me out and pointed to me in the crowd, and asked me to take that last chance power drive. When I wasn’t sure it really was me he was choosing, he shook his head YES and smiled.

YES.

All my dreams and visions come rushing back into focus. Bruce broke into Jungle Land, and he woman next to me turned and said, “Happy Birthday.”

April 3, 2012: Chapter Two, All My Dreams and Visions, Rhonda Uretzky. Today’s my Bruceday.

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Yoga Speak

You’ve heard Valley Girl Talk. You recognize Rap. But - do you speak yoga?



I started doing yoga when I was 15, back in the early 70s.  No one knew what the heck I was talking about. Was I in a cult, or just off the wall? (I was, when I was doing handstand.)

It really amuses me how yoga has become so mainstream. Now you’re kind of weird if you’re NOT doing yoga.  There’s even an inside yoga language; can the secret yoga handshake be far behind?

But is yoga just for insiders? If so,  yoga will soon be on the way out.  But you know, yoga doesn’t care. It’s 5000 years old. And it’s going to just keep doing it’s thing - healing - everyone who will just do it. No special dialect required.

Yoga class goes along better with a little laughter. Especially hot yoga.

Yes, it IS hot in here; it’s 105 degrees in the hot yoga room. Your clothes are sticking to you - why oh WHY didn’t you wear that sports bra, muffin top be damned? Your makeup is melting down your face - so much for yoga chic - but the yoga teacher says, “Don’t wipe that sweat!”  You’re not sure what’s hanging out when when you bend over in Separate Leg  Stretch and furthermore, you don’t care.

And, oh, you’re beginning to understand why they call it Wind Removing Pose.

When we say let go in hot yoga, we mean it. Crack a smile. It’s a lot better than showing any other kind of crack in yoga class. If you can learn to smile when you break a sweat, yoga is teaching you the language of stress relief.

What’s so funny about yoga? Have you ever laughed about something in yoga class? COMMENT HERE.

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Can Hot Yoga Maintain Breast Health?

Why wait till Breast Cancer Awareness Month to care for your breasts? We do it in every day, in every hot yoga class.

Pure hot yoga Can hot yoga help you maintain healthy breasts?
First, the statistics: one in three women in the US develops breast cancer. But you are not a statistic. You are a powerful creator of your own health.

You’re never too old, too ill, or too late to benefit from the lymph-and-blood pumping and cleansing benefits you get from a pure hot yoga class: 26 poses designed to press and release blood flow throughout your body.

My friend, lifelong Kundalini Yoga practitioner/ teacher Shakta Kaur Khalsa, creator of Radiant Child Yoga Training, author of numerous yoga books and courses on Yoga for Women, talks of the yoga of healthy breast care: Continue reading

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One Minute of Hot Yoga

You don’t have more than a minute to spare to try hot yoga? Well, here’s 90 minutes of hot yoga in under one minute.

After 15 years of teaching hot yoga, I honestly believe you can get some benefits just by watching hot yoga.

So here you go: the hot yoga phenomenon in under 1 minute. Get your heat with a beat.

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Is Hot Yoga Just Balmy?

When someone talks about hot yoga, do you think they’re just balmy?

“You do yoga in 105 degree heat – by choice?”

Hot yoga has amazing benefitsNever in a million years would you choose to get into a hot, sweaty room filled with other sweaty bodies doing the same 26 yoga poses under the watchful eye of a no-nonsense yoga teacher. But don’t be surprised if you love it after just one hot yoga class. Why? Because of the way you FEEL afterwards.

Hot yoga is not just the balmy notion of a wealthy guru; it’s hot genius for building strong bodies and balanced lives. Yours.

Case in point: my latest letter to Riverflow Yoga hot yoga studio in Lambertville NJ:

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The Hot Yoga Challenge: Can you change your life in 30 Days?

If you knew the next 30 days would change your life, what would you want to change most?

COMMENT HERE: what do you wish you could change in your life in the next 30 days?

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